my boyfriend was dying because of a spider on his face beside his eye. everyone knew he was going to die and i was begging him to let me look up a way to get rid of the spider but he said there was no way to do it. He decided when he was going to die and out of nowhere ripped the spider off which killed him. There was a lot of people around us and I wasn't right next to him when it happened. I was crying saying I didn't even get to say goodbye. There was a lady beside me who was his mom but not his mom in real life and she took the spider and decided she was going to die with him. I told her she shouldn't. I woke up then
This dream suggests deep feelings of powerlessness and helplessness in a situation involving your boyfriend's well-being. The spider on his face may symbolize a threat or source of harm, and the fact that everyone knew he was going to die implies a sense of impending loss or perceived inevitability in the situation. Your desperate attempts to find a way to save him but being told it was impossible reflect a feeling of being unable to control or alter the outcome.
The decision your boyfriend made to take matters into his own hands and remove the spider, leading to his death, may reflect a sense of agency or autonomy in facing a difficult situation. The presence of many people around you and your emotional response of not being able to say goodbye indicate a feeling of disconnection or lack of closure in this perceived loss.
The unexpected role of the woman resembling his mother but not actually being her may symbolize a maternal or nurturing figure in your life providing comfort or support in a time of grief. Her decision to join your boyfriend in death could represent a sense of solidarity or unity with him in his final moments, while your plea for her not to may represent a voice of reason or resistance against succumbing to despair.
Overall, this dream appears to reflect feelings of fear, sadness, and a lack of control in a situation involving your boyfriend's well-being, as well as a need for closure and emotional support in facing difficult circumstances. It may be helpful to reflect on these emotions and explore any underlying anxieties or concerns you have in your waking life.